Love ....what the heck is it?
What is the difference between love and comittment? This is often a discussion we ALL have at some point...So what happens after the "warm fuzzy feeling leaves? Do we bolt and move onto the next opportunity? Or do we continue to build this crazy little thing called love throughout our lives. If this is the case do we not owe alot of credit to those we loved for the one we love?
By Definition There Is A Fair Bit Of Difference Between Love And Commitment But The Two Are Truely Tied Togther And Have Almost Formed A Single Being In Most Cases. Not All Cases Are THe Same. At Somepoint You May Decide You Are Committed To A Person Because You Love Them. [[OMG Is Your Profile The Thing That Is Allowing My Comp To Play Rammstein?!?! Good Work]]
ReplyDeleteWhat Happens After The Warm Fuzzy Feeling Really Depends On How Strong THe Feeling Was Before And Whether It Was "Real" Or Not. Generally I Admit I Move Onto The Next Available Opportunity And For The Most Part I Am Not Happy About It.
Some People Do Continue To Build Love Throughout Our Lives. For Example My Ex I Love Him More Now Than I Did During The Three Years We Were Togther And Im Sure Its The Same For Him Too. I Think The More We Know Someone The More We Can Love Them And The More We Can Allow OUrselves To Love Them. IDK Haha
Trial And Error I Guess Is Something Else That Could Be Mentioned. Im Not Sure If I Currently Have The Brain Power To Explain Myself. But Yes We Do Owe A Lot Of Credit To Those We Loved For The Ones We Currently Love.
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ReplyDeleteThomas.....Ask any married person more than 3 years along if the "warm fuzzy feeling" leaves or gets less of that "type" of love...aka ~lust/physical attraction. Then challenge them to define love as the experience it today..For example is it a deeper connection/commitment? Or is the warm fuzzy turned into a different sensation that is not so much of a "sensual attraction" more of I love the cooking and the convversation. Or "I just adore the way his butt crack is always peeking out at me!" lol
Chris~You are an intellectual default individual. Which is great thing as long as it is balanced with an emotional approach. Love for you is rational...that is the comfort zone. However, deeper at the core you long for that gushy lovy duby..sugar snoochums; stuff.
Vize~Surprisingly I agree with most of your misunderstood ramblings? lol
Kelsey~First of all congrats! Second you have an advertised poetry Jam this weekend! Also your view on love cannot be trusted as you are engulfed in childhood fantasies of Barbie and Ken....with a little slipnot playing in the background...lol Just kidding.
I think the argument of love and commitment is an example of how they both are intricate to the "normal relationship" which only leads to the question for me. Is this generation to instant satisfaction that commitment has become irrelevant. If so do we change it? How?, Why? Or should we continue to ride the lighting ....which has and contnues to lead into "broken families, fatherless children, and emptiness at the end?